Saturday, November 21, 2009 9:53 AM
Agreed and admit
Please get that perceptions, opinions and views are not necessarily always the truth.
What's the truth may even be hidden from my view. It's wise to make doubtful claims, remarks or opinions cleared. One man's view will never be exactly the same as another man's view...
Perceptions may make each other's view occurs to be the same or to be in total disalignment..but the truth only belongs to the rightful owner to which they truly belong to. Usually well hidden and masked underneath a smile, a laughter or even in moments of silence.
Be always caring enough to find out the truth of the unspoken and it will always gives an accurate picture on any actions that's often easier perceived than sought.
It's just amazing how anyone could make a bold guess about how I truely feel, what matters to me most and what worries me most....bold guess indeed but many times not so accurate. It's like attempting to hit a bulls eye that's never possible to hit because it lies in the heart only known and make known to anyone who has the interest to know what I am all about. Very seldom I would even want to have a conversation about how inaccurate they've been because I got that being right about myself is no longer what I sought out to do.
Even to the most insensitive, I would not have it run my life because perceptions are not necessarily the truth. Do u get that? :D It is in fact a good news that happens only if you are really clear about yourself and who you really are. Having split personalities will not help in identifying who I really am. So I am glad to know at this point of time who I am and who I am not. At the same time it does not stop me from venturing what other possibilities I could also be..so it's like living in an open space that enables me to pick and choose freely the varieties of options in this universe and making choices not determined by external recommendations, reasons or opinions.
I do most sharings in my blogs and sometimes my notes...seldom do I talk about myself because most of the times when I talk it's only to either to make a difference immediately, socialise and to be listening to others speaking. Used to talk about myself a lot..but lately I love to hear and listen. It's actually very very eye opening to listen intently to another person. I'd most often experienced connectedness, empathy and love. Last time it's always, " Ok are u done yet? Now my turn to talk..I want to talk..coz what I've to say is much more interesting than what you have to say." Yup that was me. x)
So during my leisure time like this, I take this opportunity to share about myself and what's been in my head at any random moment.
Try it on. Listen and quit talking too much for a day and experience it yourself. As there's a saying somewhere that "Human beings never truely listen." :)
midNight break was fun!
Even its just few seconds. Haha!
Missed my routine.